We all want to be rewarded, but in reality we don’t always get what we want.
We prepare, we learn, we work hard to achieve the desired goal, we do our best – sacrifices, time, but life does not always reward us, it does not always allow us to get where we want to go with all our heart. In reality, what I understand is that there is no bankruptcy but only life experiences.
Remember this phrase:
No one hurts you more than you hurt yourself.
You have to understand that your life is in your hands, your happiness depends only on you – on the way you interpret what is happening to you, on the meaning you give to your failure.
After a defeat you feel discouraged, you are on the ground, you try to get up but you can’t, because you think you gave everything and you lost.
We have been taught that nothing is achieved without sacrifices, without courage, without obligations. But what they didn’t tell you was that many times you did your best, but it wasn’t enough, because many times you didn’t succeed. Many times, all the effort we put in, physical and emotional fatigue is not enough.
Life is full of unforeseen events, and it is these unforeseen events that make it so fascinating.
We must learn to accept what is happening to us, to accept the unforeseen that destabilizes us. If these unforeseen events take us away from our goals, let us accept, in order to start trying again, with more passion, more strength and more determination.
Every result we get, positive or negative, brings us experience, an experience that will make us better. It’s like raising a captive animal. Try to imagine that you took him out of the savannah where made him grow up without fear, without problems, always with food available, then, one day you put him with his mother. What will happen to him? Of course, it will be in great difficulty. Why? Because he didn’t make his armor. Why? Because he didn’t fight. Why? because he did not sacrifice himself. The same thing happens in everyday life.
Who can tell if your result is a failure or a success? Who can have the right to judge you? and especially to judge you without seeing your fears, your thoughts and tears, your effort and perseverance during this journey.
Many times in someone’s eyes you may be seen as a loser, but you are a winner.
There is only one person who can judge all this, and that person is YOU.
Remember, they are not failure but just life experiences and all these life experiences have made you the person you are today. So, find out who you are and don’t be afraid to be.
Albert Einstein said:
Life itself is magic, and if you don’t believe it, at least try to live it as something magical. Life is magic, and you are its master!
With love,
Elle